Saturday, January 8, 2011

Desiderata

 
 
 
This is one of my favorite poems or prayers.
Desiderata
Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant, they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let not this blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.Therefore, be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams; it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

My Wonderful Sister, Allison Melancon!

This post is written by my sister~ Allison "Alli"!

Where do they go?

by Allison Tanner Melancon on Wednesday, January 5, 2011 at 9:53am
I watched a movie the other day, Temple Grandin, when her horse died she asked, "Where do they go?"  I questioned that so many times in my life..I do believe people who pass either go to Heaven or Hell, but I think they can communicate with us as well...soooooo... After Russell died, I knew he spoke to me in so many signs...I'd call Steph and say OK this is what happened today...and so on...I knew he was saying...keep pushing...don't let this rest..so we didn't and the outcome was Todd's arrest..so this weekend I decided to clean out my closet..packed to the brim with crap I don't need...I came across a blue bag..it's been there for 2 years, and I assumed it was Beany's.  The hours after the accident were filled with running here and there, collecting this and that for the funeral that I must have stuck this bag in my closet so I wouldn't forget to give it to Sam..well I gave her the other things I had, for some reason this bag was left.  I handed it to Beany and said, Please do something with this stuff...(thinking it was his)..he opened the bag and pulled out two things before it hit me like a brick...an LSU hat and a Dacula coaching shirt...OH crap..that's Russell's things..just leave it on the table and I'll give it to Sam when I see her..So after all of the drama of yesterday, today I'm preparing myself walk into the DA's office and push for the speedy trial of Todd...I opened up his bag..behold his Bible.  I felt kind of nosy going through his Bible like an invasion of his privacy, but one of the things I do when I'm questioning is ask the question and flip to the first page I can to see what the answer will be...kind of what I did the day I asked about the accident in Joel Osteen's book...long story..anyway, so I didn't want to do that in his Bible but did think, Russell tell me what you want...there were 4 things in his Bible sticking out...two flyers from the sermon he must have attended one said, Pain and grief are ___________.  He filled in *inevitable...the other was a small piece of paper that had " Word Bank..with 4 words.. Jesus, born, world, dead"  stuck between Number 4 and 6, the other was a book marker type thing you can tell Lil or Ike man colored and he prob just stuck it in the middle of his Bible between Songs of Solomon 3 and 5...but the only thing outlined in his entire Bible by pen was this:

Mark 12:22
Have faith in God
Truly I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, "Be taken up and cast into the sea" and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that what he says is gong to happen, it will be granted to him.
Therefore I say to you, all things for which you pray and ask. believe that you have received them, and they will be granted you.

I'm giving Sam Russell's Bible today...